Alright, let me tell you about this dream I had the other night. It wasn’t pleasant, not at all. The title kinda gives it away, yeah? It was one of those dreams about my family being murdered.

It happened just like any other night, went to bed around my usual time. Nothing special happened that day, no weird movies, no stressful news binge. Just regular life. Then, bam, middle of the night, I’m in this dream.
I won’t go into super graphic detail, ’cause honestly, it’s fuzzy now, like dreams get. But the feeling? Oh man, that feeling was crystal clear. Fear, helplessness, this awful sense of loss. It felt incredibly real while I was in it. I remember desperately trying to do something, anything, but you know how dreams are, sometimes you’re just stuck.
Waking Up From It
I woke up suddenly. Not screaming or anything dramatic, but my heart was pounding like crazy. You know that feeling? Disoriented, sweaty, and that horrible dream-residue clinging to you. The relief of waking up was huge, but the fear didn’t just vanish instantly.
First thing I did, almost instinctively, was strain my ears to listen for sounds in the house. Just needed to hear the usual creaks, maybe the fridge humming. Reassuring myself that the dream was just that – a dream. It took a few minutes just lying there, breathing, trying to shake off the leftover dread.
What I Did Next
Couldn’t just roll over and go back to sleep, no way. My mind was racing a bit too much for that.

- Got out of bed quietly. Didn’t want to wake anyone else up.
- Walked around the house a bit. Checked the doors, looked in on the kids sleeping peacefully. Seeing them okay was a huge relief.
- Went to the kitchen, got a glass of water. Just the simple act of doing something normal helped ground me.
- Sat down for a bit, just thinking. Not really analyzing the dream like some expert, just acknowledging it was messed up and letting the adrenaline fade.
I didn’t spend ages trying to figure out ‘what it meant’. Honestly, sometimes I think a bad burrito can cause more nightmares than deep psychological stuff. For me, the important part was processing the feeling and reassuring myself of reality.
The next morning, I felt a bit tired, obviously. But the intense fear was gone. I mentioned it briefly to my partner, just a simple “Had a really bad dream last night,” without dwelling on the gruesome bits. Just sharing it lightly helped take away some of its power.
So yeah, that was my experience with that particular nightmare. Not fun, but you just gotta process it, ground yourself in reality, maybe do a few simple, comforting things, and move on. It’s just your brain being weird while you sleep, most of the time. The key thing I found was just checking in with reality afterward. That made the biggest difference.