Saw that thing about Jill Biden wearing red to vote. Got me thinking, not really about politics, you know, but about making a choice, standing out maybe.

It kinda dragged up this memory from way back. I was working on this project, a real team effort, or supposed to be. We hit a snag, a big one. Everyone started pointing fingers, doing that corporate shuffle where nobody wants to be holding the bag when the music stops.
The Big Meeting Fiasco
So, we had this huge meeting scheduled. The big bosses were gonna be there. You could feel the tension, man. Everyone was prepping their excuses, getting their ducks in a row to blame someone else. The vibe was basically: keep your head down, don’t make waves, definitely don’t wear ‘red’ metaphorically speaking.
I spent the night before just going over the data, the actual logs, the real sequence of events. I tracked down the root cause. Wasn’t pretty. It wasn’t just one person’s fault; it was a series of small misses from several areas, including mine, but also including one of the senior guys who was everyone’s golden boy.
My Prep Work
- Double-checked all the system logs.
- Mapped out the exact timeline of the failure.
- Prepared simple charts, nothing fancy, just the facts.
- Decided I wasn’t going to sugarcoat it or point fingers, just lay out what happened.
Walking into that meeting room felt heavy. Everyone looked grim. The usual loud talkers were quiet. When my turn came, I just put the facts on the screen. I didn’t editorialize. I just said, “Here’s the sequence, here’s where the process failed, here’s where we all missed steps, including my team right here.”

Man, the silence. It was like I’d actually worn bright red in a room full of beige. The golden boy looked stunned. His boss looked annoyed. My own boss looked like he wanted to crawl under the table.
The Aftermath
It was awkward for a bit, not gonna lie. Got some cold shoulders in the hallway for a few days. But you know what? The big boss, the really senior one, cornered me later. He just nodded and said, “Appreciate the honesty. Now let’s fix the damn thing.”
And we did. Because we finally knew what really needed fixing. Sometimes just laying out the plain, simple, maybe uncomfortable truth is like wearing red. It gets you noticed, might ruffle some feathers, but sometimes it’s the only way to actually move forward.
So yeah, seeing that headline just reminded me. Sometimes you gotta pick your color and wear it, even if it makes things a little tense for a moment.